Comments on: More Details on the New Rules http://chinaadopttalk.com/2006/12/28/more-details-on-the-new-rules/ Join the Rumor Queen as she looks for the latest rumors and then analyzes them, trying to figure out what the CCAA will do next. Sat, 19 May 2012 02:54:56 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 By: DeeDee http://chinaadopttalk.com/2006/12/28/more-details-on-the-new-rules/comment-page-1/#comment-27863 DeeDee Fri, 29 Dec 2006 15:30:01 +0000 http://chinaadopttalk.com/2006/12/28/more-details-on-the-new-rules/#comment-27863 Hi wanting 1 more Could you PM me? I am new to this Board and don't klnow how to PM yet. I wanted to ask you about the antidepressant issue. Thanks so much. I am interested to know what your agency says about specifc conditions and meds. Thanks! Hi wanting 1 more

Could you PM me? I am new to this Board and don’t klnow how to PM yet. I wanted to ask you about the antidepressant issue.
Thanks so much. I am interested to know what your agency says about specifc conditions and meds.

Thanks!

]]> By: wanting1more http://chinaadopttalk.com/2006/12/28/more-details-on-the-new-rules/comment-page-1/#comment-27762 wanting1more Fri, 29 Dec 2006 00:51:52 +0000 http://chinaadopttalk.com/2006/12/28/more-details-on-the-new-rules/#comment-27762 This is my first post but have been reading for quite awhile. We have identified a waiting child that we would love to adopt but we do not fit the new guidelines due to antidepressant use (obsessive compulsive disorder). The agency we would be using is going to "ask" China about our situation before we begin so that we don't get our hearts and pocketbooks broken if they were to reject us. I doubt it would be possible for us to get our dossier done before the deadline. I know we are taking a risk at calling attention to ourselves but we just feel we need to know one way or the other. We have a lot of positives in our favor including having adopted twice before as well as my being a nurse so we'll see. I'll let you know what we find out! This is my first post but have been reading for quite awhile. We have identified a waiting child that we would love to adopt but we do not fit the new guidelines due to antidepressant use (obsessive compulsive disorder). The agency we would be using is going to “ask” China about our situation before we begin so that we don’t get our hearts and pocketbooks broken if they were to reject us. I doubt it would be possible for us to get our dossier done before the deadline. I know we are taking a risk at calling attention to ourselves but we just feel we need to know one way or the other. We have a lot of positives in our favor including having adopted twice before as well as my being a nurse so we’ll see. I’ll let you know what we find out!

]]> By: Bsmom2Be http://chinaadopttalk.com/2006/12/28/more-details-on-the-new-rules/comment-page-1/#comment-27745 Bsmom2Be Thu, 28 Dec 2006 22:52:26 +0000 http://chinaadopttalk.com/2006/12/28/more-details-on-the-new-rules/#comment-27745 I am kinda in shock when I read that they might go back and reevaluate anti anxiety med use. That would be a BIG issue prohibiting us from going back again. I am just feeling uncertain and nervous for all of us. I don't want to bad mouth the CCAA however I think they are toying with us a bit :( I just told my dh "Oh maybe we can go back a second time" and he told me he would love to HOWEVER this has become a real rollercoaster of emotion even for him all the uncertainty etc. He is usually the positive one too :( I told dh I will be nervous for all of us until we get our babies in our arms.......... Sheila LID 11/05 I am kinda in shock when I read that they might go back and reevaluate anti anxiety med use. That would be a BIG issue prohibiting us from going back again. I am just feeling uncertain and nervous for all of us. I don’t want to bad mouth the CCAA however I think they are toying with us a bit :( I just told my dh “Oh maybe we can go back a second time” and he told me he would love to HOWEVER this has become a real rollercoaster of emotion even for him all the uncertainty etc. He is usually the positive one too :( I told dh I will be nervous for all of us until we get our babies in our arms……….

Sheila
LID 11/05

]]> By: familyforbabyfaith http://chinaadopttalk.com/2006/12/28/more-details-on-the-new-rules/comment-page-1/#comment-27690 familyforbabyfaith Thu, 28 Dec 2006 19:38:54 +0000 http://chinaadopttalk.com/2006/12/28/more-details-on-the-new-rules/#comment-27690 RQ- Are there any new rumors as to when these referrals will be shipped/received??? I am losing my mind waiting for it... how can these few days that we have been waiting seem longer than the entire wait??? Also- I love the anti-spam words!!!! Zoe 9/19/05 LID RQ-

Are there any new rumors as to when these referrals will be shipped/received??? I am losing my mind waiting for it… how can these few days that we have been waiting seem longer than the entire wait???

Also- I love the anti-spam words!!!!

Zoe
9/19/05 LID

]]> By: threebluesteps http://chinaadopttalk.com/2006/12/28/more-details-on-the-new-rules/comment-page-1/#comment-27688 threebluesteps Thu, 28 Dec 2006 18:44:54 +0000 http://chinaadopttalk.com/2006/12/28/more-details-on-the-new-rules/#comment-27688 Exactly. As long as people are willing to come here and share information from their experience and from their agencies, we'll be able to put a picture together. And as long as RQ is willing to assemble these kooky puzzle pieces (screaming babe in one hand, fuzzy toy wagging in another, puzzle piece in a third. She does have 3 hands, right?). I do wonder if in future, once the CCAA-ageny relationship deepens re. referral batches, agencies will get penalized for their clients sharing info, and if a little bit of fear of 'what-if-they-catch-me' will creep into what people are willing too share. Hope not! All the info that's come has been such good prep. Even when it doesn't come, we know there's no info out there to be had. Exactly. As long as people are willing to come here and share information from their experience and from their agencies, we’ll be able to put a picture together. And as long as RQ is willing to assemble these kooky puzzle pieces (screaming babe in one hand, fuzzy toy wagging in another, puzzle piece in a third. She does have 3 hands, right?).

I do wonder if in future, once the CCAA-ageny relationship deepens re. referral batches, agencies will get penalized for their clients sharing info, and if a little bit of fear of ‘what-if-they-catch-me’ will creep into what people are willing too share. Hope not! All the info that’s come has been such good prep. Even when it doesn’t come, we know there’s no info out there to be had.

]]> By: redmaryjanes http://chinaadopttalk.com/2006/12/28/more-details-on-the-new-rules/comment-page-1/#comment-27685 redmaryjanes Thu, 28 Dec 2006 17:31:01 +0000 http://chinaadopttalk.com/2006/12/28/more-details-on-the-new-rules/#comment-27685 Our dossier was sent to China last week. My husband and I do not meet the new length of marriage if there is a divorce criteria. We have been married 3.5 years not 5 as the new rules state. If we are questioned or held up, we'll document it here. I think that people who are DTC or in the review rooms are going to have to share what they are questioned about or told. That is how we will learn what is really going on. We'll figure it out together. Our dossier was sent to China last week. My husband and I do not meet the new length of marriage if there is a divorce criteria. We have been married 3.5 years not 5 as the new rules state.
If we are questioned or held up, we’ll document it here.
I think that people who are DTC or in the review rooms are going to have to share what they are questioned about or told. That is how we will learn what is really going on.
We’ll figure it out together.

]]> By: hannahsprayer http://chinaadopttalk.com/2006/12/28/more-details-on-the-new-rules/comment-page-1/#comment-27684 hannahsprayer Thu, 28 Dec 2006 17:18:49 +0000 http://chinaadopttalk.com/2006/12/28/more-details-on-the-new-rules/#comment-27684 "Those who are already in the Special Needs program AND are already logged in seem to be okay. It appears to only be the new LOI applications that are being held up to the new rules. There is some talk though, that if you have a PA for a child and are not logged in yet that if you aren’t logged in by May 1st then you may lose your PA if you don’t meet the new guidelines." This is what I am trying to find out, if we can even submit an LOI on our little boy we've been looking at for 2 months...our agency just opened today after being closed for Christmas and I think are swamped. My husband and I each have a police record OLD police record that could prohibit us. I just need to know one way or another so I can either move on with life or move on with this adoption!! HP “Those who are already in the Special Needs program AND are already logged in seem to be okay. It appears to only be the new LOI applications that are being held up to the new rules. There is some talk though, that if you have a PA for a child and are not logged in yet that if you aren’t logged in by May 1st then you may lose your PA if you don’t meet the new guidelines.”

This is what I am trying to find out, if we can even submit an LOI on our little boy we’ve been looking at for 2 months…our agency just opened today after being closed for Christmas and I think are swamped. My husband and I each have a police record OLD police record that could prohibit us. I just need to know one way or another so I can either move on with life or move on with this adoption!!

HP

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