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I’m back. Kind of.

I’m back, but I have an unbelievable amount of things to be doing right now. On the rumor front it will probably be best to continue going through the moderators at least for the time being, and possibly until I return from China. I’ll be around in the background though, so I can check in and put my two cents worth in here and there.

I’ve changed the CCAA Updates page (if I’ve gotten anything wrong please let me know).

And I’ve done a very quick analysis for how the next referral batches might go:

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I did that analysis in a hurry, so I may need to look at it again later, but that’s my quick look at things. It looks like the most recent referrals landed right between the bad and mid case scenario from the last batch, and I foresee future batches being closer to the bad or mid case scenarios, as it’s been about five months since we’ve seen the kind of numbers in the good case scenario.

Again, I’ve been away from home for a while, my big girl needs a lot of attention, my husband could use some attention as well, I have a huge pile of mail my husband figured could wait until I got home, I’m trying to look at available flights and talk about hotels and, well, I’m busier than anyone can possibly imagine. So I’ll be around but I think the majority of the activity is going to have to continue on the forum for the time being.


 
 
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98 Responses to “I’m back. Kind of.”

  1. akina Says:

    Welcome back. You were missed.
    -akina

  2. tgredthread Says:

    do the things you need to RQ…
    all good things in their own time.

    do enjoy your China trip!

    -T & G & Autumn Rose
    :)

  3. Firsttimemom Says:

    I MISSED YOU! Never thought I’d miss a blog so much.

  4. skye06 Says:

    Hi RQ!! Giddy-happy to hear from you!!
    We’re doing fine; Fab Five mods are wonderful. Do whatever you have to do. Have a great trip to China. We’re all so happy for you and travel with you in spirit.
    Big hug!

  5. LostInDespair Says:

    Welcome back! Well, you must have re-organized every darned off-site location your company has, and cross-trained 18 people to do your job! (Isn’t it nice to be needed?)
    Could you possibly turn the forum registration back on? Many of us were not aware we had to register separately for the forum, and while you’ve been gone (a whole month!), we’ve been outside here, noses pressed against the window, shivering in the cold, unable to come in and talk to anyone! : (

  6. ashley2007 Says:

    HI RQ- It is so wonderful to see you back. You were so missed.
    Thank you for getting on the quick analysis so fast.
    Ashley

  7. adoptingella Says:

    Welcome Back RQ!!! We missed you too. My mom and I check this board every day and then talk about what’s happening and when we think you will return. We’re hooked. My mom has to be in the hospital tomorrow but she was wondering how she could log in to see the rumors. She’s so cute - such a great support for our adoption even when she isn’t feeling well. Love you mom!

    By the way, we would love to register for the forum as well.

  8. catherinethegreat Says:

    Welcome back RQ. You were definately missed. The FABULOUS FIVE (moderators) were AWSOME. THANK-YOU for taking the time to post your projections. No worries…

  9. sarahjane Says:

    Welcome back, oh boy did I miss you. I am such a junkie. the Fab Five did a great job, sorry it just was not the same. I hope you fixed all your clients.
    Funny thing, went to a birthday party for our friend’s little one that just got back at the end of January and another family there was a LID of July 2005, my friend was Aug 2005 and I am Nov 2005 ( some of the biggest months) needless to say we all agreed we could not have survived without the Queen. Please take your time and get your arrangements made, we understand.

  10. DaddyOOO Says:

    Welcome back, it’s been a hard month especially since we missed the cutoff by one day. The forum moderators have been great keeping the information flowing.

    Are you planning to reopen registration on the forum?

    DaddyOOO
    LID 10/25/05 (NEXT!!!!!!)

  11. PinkPunch Says:

    RQ- welcome back! The Fab 5 are awesome, but it was entertaining to log in just now and see a change on the page!

  12. manda4lilly Says:

    Wow, am I dreaming? Couldn’t sleep so decided to check things out. Welcome back! You were so missed, but the moderators are holding down the fort very well in your absense. Thanks for taking the time to update us - your words are golden!

  13. LinPatton3 Says:

    I knew I couldn’t sleep for a reason….so I get up and check the site…and aside from a referral batch….I have never been happier!!!!
    Its just nice to know you’re still there…busy as Heck I know…but its all good now…
    Thanks for the analysis…its late…I am going to really check it in the morning…I am just so excited you popped in!
    ~Linda

  14. momto4hopefully Says:

    I almost had a heart attack when I saw the new post. Thanks for checking in!!!

  15. Karenmb Says:

    Welcome back! Will I see you in China?

  16. kes44p Says:

    Welcome home.

    The Fab 5 did a great job in your absence, but it’s not the same.

    It’s lovely to have you here - if only for a short time.

    With a LID of 1st Nov 05 I don’t like your predictions - but it’s still a relief to see it in black and white.

    Thanks RQ,
    Kate
    http://kes44p.blogspot.com/

  17. adomom12 Says:

    RQ,

    So good to have you back!

    Your predictions are sad for a Decemberonian hoping for a May/June referral but this whole journey has been a character shaper. I only have six groups in front of mine at our large multi-country agency and was holding out hope. I know I am closer, but some days I feel like I am hanging on by a thread.

    Thank you for taking time to greet us upon your return. I hope you have the most amazing time in CHina!

    Adomom12
    LID 12/08/2005

  18. twinangel Says:

    Welcome home!! Missed you, too.

    Enjoy your trip to China.

    Rhonda
    LID 5/18/2006

  19. girlzmama2002 Says:

    Oh RQ!!!!

    I am SO glad to see you are back safely!! And that you are busy beyond belief is No problem! Do what you need to do and we will do our best to behave.

    Your Mods have been stellar!!

    Again, glad you are back!!

    Alyson

  20. pucca Says:

    i missed you like crazy!!! i felt so lost without you, RQ!!!
    Is it possible do start a new poll wich includes januari?
    I know you are very busy, but we are all so curious…
    Enjoy your preparation to China!!!
    Thank you so much for coming back…

  21. fromSpain Says:

    Welcome back. We missed you even in Spain.

  22. 3kids2dogs1hubnME Says:

    You have just made my morning!! Welcome back! You certainly were missed. :) As I am not signed in in the forum, I felt like a person looking in through a glass window, hollering for someone to hear me, but no one could. I have a voice again today! Hope all is well.

  23. frustrated Says:

    Thanks so much for coming back. We have all missed your wise words!

    For my part, just seeing that I make it in all your scenarios for the referral batch one after next has made my morning! Its so nice to see it confirmed from a source I trust.

    I hope all is well…and just givve us a heads up when you have time. We know you are super busy.

  24. 2fromchina Says:

    Welcome Back! You were very missed. I hope you take all the time you need as you prepare for your trip to China and give your daughter and husband a little TLC. Seeing how much we missed you, I am sure they missed you terribly!

    The moderators are doing such a great job! But I must say, I was a little worried you weren’t coming back :) Phew!

    Best wishes!

  25. reglissoly Says:

    I’m so happy! Welcome back RQ!

    Réglissoly
    LID03/15/06

  26. WetBird Says:

    Welcome Back! I think my heart skipped a beat when I opened the blog and the first thing I saw didn’t say Hiatus!

    The moderators did a great job, but hearing your ‘voice’ again is like music to my ears!

    Enjoy getting reaquainted with your big Princess and the King and safe travels for bringing the little Princess home!

    TJ
    Mommy to Lily Katherine Yin

  27. Kimber Says:

    Welcome Home Rumor Queen ….Welcome Home.
    I had this gut feeling you’d be there this morning when I logged in.

    Kim

  28. Natalie Says:

    Welcome back! Glad you’re home safe. Good luck and have fun preparing for your next adventure. N

  29. SuzyQ Says:

    Welcome back! I hope everthing at work has gone well for you these last few weeks.

    The moderators are fantastic!

    Thanks again for all you do for us.

  30. jj2china Says:

    Welcome home. Missed you.

    B

  31. ellen Says:

    Glad to see you’re posting just wish you had better news!! *grin*

  32. CominRoundTheMountn Says:

    You’re back! We were worried. You didn’t call, you didn’t write… (Practicing to be a Mom.)

    So glad to “see” you again!

    Coming Round The Mountain
    LID 11/22/05

  33. glassmaker Says:

    Welcome back and safe travels on your way to China!
    Kim

  34. BellaorNoah? Says:

    Welcome back (for now) RQ! The mod squad has been great! I’ve been a little bummed that forum registration is turned off as I can’t chime in but it is still nice to read the posts. If you could leave forum registration on for a few days I would love to register as I think we may very well be next in line for referrals! WooHoo! Finally! Thank you for all you do and we wish your family the very best as you add one more to the royal family. :-)

    Kindly,
    Brittany
    10-27-05

  35. waitingfor2 Says:

    Welcome back RQ! I’m glad you popped in - especially knowing all the preparations you must be going through. Have a wonderful time in China!

  36. scrapping in ontario Says:

    Welcome back RQ!! You were missed!!!!!!!!

    The forum moderators did an AMAZING job. You’ve chosen will and left things in great hands. Kudos to them!

    One request, can you PLEASE open the forum registration? So many times I wanted to post information I had but was unable to. Normally I post the info I receive her.

    Thanks for considering my request.

  37. alibound Says:

    YEA!!!!! Welcome back - we missed you! I felt like I’ve been a black hole with no daily postings! Take care of your personal things and we hope to hear more from you soon!

  38. crazy4emily Says:

    YAY! You’re back!! Please, spend all the time with your family that you need to. But YAY! You’re back! :-)

  39. canadagirl Says:

    Welcome back, RQ!!! You were really missed.

    The fab 5 you set up as moderators are doing a great job! The kingdom is secure and has been well run in your absence. It was a good trial run for when you are in China.

    Happy planning!

    Canadagirl

  40. Elaine Says:

    Welcome Home! It’s great to have you back. The Queendom was looked after quite well while you were away, but you were missed. You may have fun looking at the rumors about you when you have time to catch up on all of that.
    Wishing you a speedy and wonderful trip to China.

    Elaine Lo
    Mother to Amanda in Hunan

  41. sewhopeful22 Says:

    So wonderful to ‘hear’ your voice! You were truly missed!

  42. wnderwfe Says:

    So excited to have you back RQ!!! I know you are busy. So thanks for taking time out for us. :)

    Jen T.

  43. Briellesmom Says:

    I literally did a double take… i got out and clicked back in thinking I had gone into an old post! :) Happy for you that you can now concentrate on your trip!

  44. mtpca Says:

    Hi RG. Can you start a daily poll here on the blog like last ones so we can see what’s ahead of us? Thanks.

  45. pettrout Says:

    The Rumor Queen’s back and we’re all very happy, hey la, hey la, the Rumor Queen’s back!”

    Just this morning I was pondering what your job might be that would take you away from both your families for so long. (I came up with astronaut FWIW.)

    Anyhow, we’re thrilled you’re back, even if for a very short time. I hope so much that you have a fabulous time in China!

    The mods have been great. And us other grasshoppers have become better students of RQ predictions. I have the same mid-case predictions for the first 2 months, didn’t go any further than that.

    You have the kingdom’s best wishes for safe and peaceful travel to welcome your new daughter. Yippee!

    PT

  46. mom23boys Says:

    WELCOME BACK!!!!!

  47. Buster Says:

    I haven’t even read your post yet, but I’m just so happy that you’re back and hope you’re trip was good.

    Buster.

  48. shadowlene Says:

    Welcome back!!!!

    Linda
    http://www.borninourheartsfamily.blogspot.com

  49. china030507 Says:

    Welcome back! So glad you checked in and said hello! Your Fab 5 are doing a great job in your absence, so you can relax about that and just enjoy this time of preparing for your new little one.

  50. gonnagetkayli Says:

    Oh boy am I about twenty steps behind… I got so used to just clicking out of the blog area and going straight to the forum that I overlooked the return like 50 times already….
    Well anyways WELCOME BACK TO YOUR KINGDOM RUMOR QUEEN!!!!!
    We have all been very good little boys and girls, we didn’t have any foodfights, we went to bed ontime, we skipped all of the girl scout cookies, we ate all of our veggies, and we never once tied up the “Mod Squad” with duct tape!! Did ya bring us home a surprise?
    Seriously though, welcome back!! I am sure that I speak for all when I say that your moderators did an exceptional job but there was definately a sense of loss around here without you!!

  51. Mendy Says:

    Welcome Back RQ~ We missed ya! Have a safe and wonderful trip to China! I wish I could go back! I loved it there!

  52. Mendy Says:

    Welcome Back RQ~ We missed ya! Have a safe and wonderful trip to China! I wish I could go back! I loved it there!

  53. Mendy Says:

    How did it post twice. Sorry!

  54. Trace7 Says:

    Glad to see you back! Have a great trip to China :)

    Oh - and as far as your analysis - that is pretty much what I figured with our 11/22/05 LID - best case June, wirst case July. I can live with that - and glad to know your analysis is the same as my thoughts.

  55. snickerdoodle Says:

    It’s so wonderful to see you back as we all missed you so much. Happy days are here again!

    Every best wish for a great trip to China.

    Snick
    dd Sunshine
    lid October 31/05 dare I say, possibly next????

  56. oodle Says:

    Dear RQ,

    I’ve been lurking for quite a while but your return has prompted me to post for the first time. I just need to express how much I missed your daily analysis!

    Also, your predictions are in line with my expectations, despite the fact that our agency seems pretty certain that we’ll be in the next batch. Still holding out some hope, though….

    Oodle
    LID 11-3-05

  57. dutchdeb Says:

    Welcome back, RQ! We missed you! Take it easy and have a nice trip to China.

  58. ladybuginnebraska Says:

    What a nice to suprise this morning to see the Queen
    back. I hope you get to slow down just a little bit and
    have some time to enjoy with your family before you
    go to China. If anyone deserves it , it’s you!!!! I cant
    believe that I can finally say June I will get to see my
    angel’s face. YAY!!!!!!!!

    Best of luck to everyone!!!!!!!!

    ladybuginnebraska :-)

    lid 11/18/05
    http://www.ost.redthreadkids.org

  59. waiting in Texas Says:

    WELCOME BACK- So glad you are willing to check on us while you are so busy!! We missed you!

  60. luvbugsmom Says:

    Yes! The Queen has returned! Can I register for the forum now? Please say yes! I just had my homestudy updated this morning and I’m all about the adoption today. BTW, you left your queendom in very capable hands.

    LID 4/11/06

  61. Karen Parsons Says:

    Welcome back! I echo the words of appreciation for your webiste and all that you do! Your work is tremendous and greatly appreciated. Plus, a special thanks to the Fab 5 for continuing your work!

    Our family wishes you and your’s safe travel and a marvelous adoption journey!

    LID 12/7/05

  62. Sumay Says:

    Welcome back, RQ! You were missed! Also, I have been wanting to post in the forum but was denied access. Could you let me know how I can register and/or log in now? Is the forum login different from the comments page login?
    Thanks!
    LID 10/26/05

  63. frlfclvr Says:

    We are so happy that you are back :), even part time is better than not at all :) Congratulations again on your recent adoption!

    Take care ;)

    LID 12/20/2006 for SN…..where are those LOA’s……

  64. bloomer Says:

    Best Wishes and Happy Travels!!

  65. waitingforbaby Says:

    Welcome back, RQ! You have definitely been missed! Do you really think that the best case scenario would have only 2 days of LID for June? I’m confused! We’ve never seen that small of number of days of LID since we started the process in 2005. Just wondering what the rationale is for that and if November 23 and 24 are really that big of days that there would only be two days referred in a month.

    Again, welcome back!

  66. MaggieInDallas Says:

    Woo hoo! RQ is back! What a happy day!

    Just wanted to put my name on the list of people desperate to register for the forum. To my mind, that is a higher priority than another poll on the blog. We’re not going to get to the end of the most recent poll for a while, and even though the next poll is mine (LID 12/12/05), being able to participate in the forum conversation is a much bigger deal at this point.

    Welcome back, RQ!

  67. pettrout Says:

    Hmmmm, my first welcome back post from this morning never posted.

    Suffice to say after a little song about RQ to the tune of “My boyfriend’s back”, I wished her all the best.

    Both her families missed her very much, despite the capable and wonderful fab five.

    I was pondering what type of job might keep you away so long and decided that you may be an astronaut! LOL.

    Us grasshoppers have had good training from the Queen and I’m happy to report that my next two months’ predictions are the same as your mid-case.

    Finally, everyone in the kingdom wishes you a safe and peaceful trip to China for the newest member of your family.

    PT

  68. eli Says:

    waitingfforbaby — i noticed that too — i wonder if there’s actually a typo in the ‘good case scenario’ for may, i.e. it should read 11/13, or maybe 11/14 or 11/15? there usually isn’t such a huge difference in days between the mid case and the good case, and in may there’s 11 days. maybe that’s it..?

    Oh and welcome back RQ! i was so happy to see that box this morning!

  69. LauraPBS Says:

    Welcome back! Good luck getting everything done!

    LauraPBS

  70. pettrout Says:

    Testing to see if I’m logged off the forum, that my comments will show up.

    PT

  71. pettrout Says:

    Ok, found my answer!

    So for third time’s the charm sake:

    “The Rumor Queen’s back and we’re all very happy, hey la, hey la, the Rumor Queen’s back!”

    After pondering what type of job would take RQ away from both her families for so long, I’ve decided that she must be an astronaut! Who knew? ;o)

    No really, we missed you terribly despite the great job the Fab Five are doing.

    We grasshoppers are actually learning from the RQ and her style of analysis for predictions. I have the same dates predicted for the next two months’ of mid-case scenarios (didn’t go further out).

    Anyhow, RQ, nice of you to check in, and everyone here in the kingdom wishes you a safe and peaceful trip to China for the newest member of your family!!

    Dzai jien.
    PT

  72. TrulyBlessed Says:

    Like some others, I’ve been locked out of the forum these past several weeks. Wow, it’s hard to have so much to say, and no way to say it! Maybe now that RQ’s back, I’ll be let back in…

    RQ, you’ve got to be glad to be home, I’ll bet your guy and your little gal are glad to have you home!

  73. pettrout Says:

    Ok, I have officially failed the patience test, and now previous posts are showing up, albeit several hours later. I hope you all will grant me some patience for posting the same thing 3X. My apologies, So sorry!!
    PT,
    a more inexperienced grasshopper than she thought a couple of hours ago.
    10/27/05

  74. chinadreams Says:

    SO HAPPY YOUR BACK!!!!

    But, I agree, do what you need to do first and foremost.

    Enjoy your trip to China. I am still waiting…but I just know it will be totally amazing. And you already have one precious DD, so you know…. :)

  75. RumorQueen Says:

    I changed the analysis image to show all 2005 dates, and took out the best case scenario for June since the poll doesn’t go that far. I have no idea what I was thinking when I did that.

    Also, forum registration is open for those of you wanting to register.

    I’m not making any promises on another poll, but I hope to be able to put on together before I leave again.

    Thanks for all of the Welcome Back’s.

  76. waiting4kjk2 Says:

    Oh my goodness!! I finally get a chance since yesterday afternoon to check in and what do I see “SHE’s BACK!!” WHOO HOO!!! I haven’t been this excited about my adoption journey in a long time. WELCOME BACK!! Your mod squad did a wonderful job in keeping us informed and happy.

    Safe travels in the near future. Enjoy time with family.

    KJK

  77. gnanna Says:

    I just had to add my “WELCOME BACK” You are a bright spot in a tough journey and even though we are back from China now. It is so nice to hear from you. Thanks for all you do!

    Have a great trip to China and enjoy your family!

    http://www.joyshare.com/sites/nanna

  78. Lisa Says:

    Glad to see your back. Lisa

  79. gonnagetkayli Says:

    Can we officially ban the word “hiatus” on this site? he he

  80. HopefulFor07 Says:

    Enjoy every moment of your journey to and in China, RQ! Don’t give us a second thought — just have a fabulous time! Lots of hugs and kisses to your new little one! :)

  81. pax4me2 Says:

    RQ -
    Welcome back. Your moderators are doing a great job. So, enjoy some time with your family. I hope you will be traveling soon to see your little one.

  82. Ellieskyesmommy Says:

    Dear Rumor Queen,

    With all due respect to you and your wonderful family. THANK YOU FOR POSTING! Enjoy your trip and kiss that lovely baby!

    Smiles!

    Jeanne
    Orlando, Florida
    Ellie (Fuling, 3/17/04)
    Sagan LID 6/15/06

  83. kim532 Says:

    When I saw you were back, my heart jumped. THE QUEEN HAS RETURNED!!!! LONG LIVE THE QUEEN!!!!

  84. waiting4baby32 Says:

    Have a great trip to China!

    Also I am glad to find out why I could not post on the forum.

  85. christina Says:

    Welcome home RQ. It is nice just to know that you are “among” us again. I hope your family is enjoying your time together. You were definitely missed.

  86. waiting2bmommy Says:

    RQ,
    Like so many have said in the past two days, WELCOME BACK! I can’t believe I missed someone so much….someone that I don’t even personally know, only as RQ! It was so good to see your post, and to know that you are now getting ready to go to China! How exciting for you and your family. We wish you all the best!!

  87. Rose0104 Says:

    RQ - you are so amazing, thank you so much for all you do!!! Blessings and hugs to you and your family!!!

  88. somedaymama Says:

    Welcome Back, RQ! Have a wonderful trip to China!

  89. LinPatton3 Says:

    I am SOOOOOOOOOOOO in my happy place right now…

  90. Blossombaby Says:

    LostInDespair, you voiced my sentiments perfectly: RQ must have fixed her entire company and we were pressing our noses against the window of the forum regretting we hadn’t logged in before RQ left. Daddyooo and Kab19067, wasn’t that cut off so painful?
    Blossombaby 10.25

  91. shatfiel Says:

    I have been going through RQ withdrawals. I’m not logged in to the Forum, but I’d like to be. How do I do that? I tried, but it said it was closed. WELCOME BACK RQ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  92. woopig Says:

    So very glad to have you back however, whenever, and no matter how briefly!

  93. patientlywaiting Says:

    Welcome Home RQ and hope you brought something for the Mod Squad they did a wonderful job, because as you know we are a handful to say the least! Have fun packing!

  94. 4emily Says:

    Welcome back and the fab 5 were awesome!
    Get some rest, catch up and thanks for everything!

    LID 5/15/2006 hoping for referral end of 2008

  95. lies1976 Says:

    Welcome back!

  96. theups Says:

    RQ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are back!!!

    We just got back from China last Saturday. I started asking everyone in my travel group (yes, even the dads) “Are YOU Rumor Queen?” HAHAA!!!

    His,
    Mrs. U
    Mommy to Elizabeth Ann- “Forever Blessed Day” 2-25-07
    http://www.youbelong.net/upchurchfamily
    and
    http://www.makingahouseahome.blogspot.com

  97. QUEBEC Says:

    Hi, I am new here…and trying any way possible to change my mind. Some are now saying that because of the Olympic, CCAA might speed things up! I was really depress when I used the calculator to find out when could be my referral date… My LID is march 20, 2006. Help to see that I am not the only one going crazy. If that continue, her room will have to be repaint… :)

  98. grace2lilly Says:

    RQ…great to see you back! We’re headed to China in 8 days to bring home our Lilly! Hope to see you there! She’s a spicy girl so we’ll be in Hunan…if you wear purple I promise not to come running up to you screaming….it’s Rumor Queen, it’s Rumor Queen!!! :) Have an awesome trip….

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