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Not good news for the 25th

I’m told that someone with a lid of Nov 25th has been told she is not included in this batch.

I’m not ready to consider this a done deal, but it is not looking very good right now.


 
 
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33 Responses to “Not good news for the 25th”

  1. TrulyBlessed Says:

    Oh no…not another small batch. I surely hope your source is wrong or misunderstood her agency.

    Still pulling for a big batch (I remember the horridness of the wait in the last few weeks, it is not fun)….

    TB

  2. suzielei Says:

    Not Good!
    I don’t like that!
    I don’t like that at all!
    arrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh!
    Made my headache worse!

    thanks anyway for the update RQ ;)

  3. p12 Says:

    24th would be quite pathetic :(

  4. tellmemore Says:

    Let’s just face it, the 24th is the cut-off.

  5. DragonMom Says:

    Is this the same person who posted on the November yahoo group? Because the way i read that post is that the agency said they wouldn’t get their referral until September, which might mean simply that referrals aren’t expected this week. (which we’ve all figured by now anyway.)

    I just can’t stand the thought of the 24th being it, with a LId 11/30, I’d have to spend another month wondering if I’m in or not, and that is getting really, really, sickening.

  6. tassiegirl Says:

    Perhaps this person is from an agency who has no idea - like, for example MINE. When I talked to our Department a couple of weeks ago, saying how excited we were to be next, I was told not to get too excited, as it may not happen. Our LID is November 22nd…..

    tassie

  7. firewens Says:

    This is just heartbreaking! I can’t stand this…Wishing you late November LIDrs the best.

    Wendy
    LID 12/27/05
    http://adoptionandfire.typepad.com

  8. w8ing4emma Says:

    Crud. With a 12/13/05 LID, I’m assuming (or am I still hoping?) for a Nov referral. And a couple days further for this batch probably wouldn’t get me a referral any sooner. But darn…a little bit of good news sure would have been nice for a change.

    I bought myself a woo-woo cupcake from a
    ‘cupcake bar’. I ate half of it and set it down. I have a feeling that I’ll be grabbing the plate & finishing it now.

    yeah–it’s yummy. It’s a s’mores cupcake. With yummy chocolate ganache.

    I’ll diet in China.

    I’m happy I’ll be getting off the roller coaster soon (??). I think.

    Hugs to all.
    Linda

  9. waiting in canada Says:

    I really hope ALL the november 2005 will get match this time around. It’s become unfaire for them to be waiting for so long. It’s a rollercoaster of emotions for me but am a 2007 LID, I can’t even imagine what they are going through.

    Positive thinking !!

  10. w8ing4emma Says:

    Tassie–your agency is probably just worried about that huge batch on 11/21-1/2. HAHA.

    The last time I checked the calendar, there were no days b/t 11/21 and 11/22. I think you’re safe to say you’re next.

    Oh–and the cupcake is gone now. It was better than I remember (from 20 minutes ago). I’m glad I didn’t let it go to waste. Instead it went to (my) WAIST.

    Oh–I am a card.

    Tassie–looking forward to hearing your good news next week!

    Linda

  11. DragonMom Says:

    I wish I had a smores cupcake.

    :P

  12. seachange Says:

    I shouldn’t feel shocked anymore but I gasped out loud when I read this.

    With the 22nd as big as it is, I think only a couple days of referrals is highly likely. When will I stop getting my hopes up only to be kicked to the curb every month…….barfbag please.

  13. firstchinababy Says:

    Well the 24th or possibly the 25th is all i was expecting…..doesn’t mean I haven’t been keeping my fingers crossed for more!!!!!!!!

    Still praying they will get a little further than that!!!!

    Sending ((((BIG HUGS)))))to the rest of all the November folks.

    LID Dec.19th/05

  14. akatedear Says:

    This is just sad…

  15. tiredofw8ing Says:

    @#$%*@#%^$%!
    #$@$^%#*@$%$
    !#$!$@^*&^$!@#$*

  16. WaitinginAZ Says:

    Well this is not the way I wanted to start out the holiday weekend…. And my birthday is next week… BOOO HOOO!!!!

    I really really was hoping for some better news…. I am still taking my laptop camping…. DH’s idea,,, he is addicted too,,, just won’t admit it….

    LID 12/19/05

  17. Dreaming of Cassie Says:

    I’m so saddened for all you late Nov. LID’s and REALLY hoping this is one is off. Hang in there!

  18. babyshae Says:

    I don’t know why I’m surprised by this but I really believed we might finally catch a break this month…UUUGGGHHHH!!!! I’m taking the kids to Disneyland tomorrow but I think I’ll stick to the kiddie rides….my heart can’t take another roller coaster.
    Geez, I really really wish I had a cupcake too:)
    LID 12/5/05 Will I ever see my baby’s face?

  19. bornfromtheheart Says:

    tassiegirl, why does your reply from your agency not surprise me. It’s a bit sad when the SW has to ask you where are in line, in our case.
    So maybe they have a similar agency..not up to speed.

  20. belgianmomtobe Says:

    NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO !
    We don’t want to hear that!
    We’ve just started our second adoption ‘tour’ and we also need some speed up and at least some good news.
    Right now, our thoughts are with te late Novembers…
    hang in there!

    (LID, 8/23/2005, home with our little princess since December 22,2006)

  21. dutchdeb Says:

    Sad story….. Don’t you have a happy one?
    :-( Or maybe a happy ending?

  22. mlb75 Says:

    I really was not prepared for another 3 day batch, should have been but wasn’t, it’s days like this I really want to just give up. Just when you think things are to a point you can begin to predict what might happen, then this. This sucks.

    I am happy for those of you about to receive a referral though, can’t wait to see pictures.

  23. TheVoiceofReason Says:

    Just when you started to get comfortable (again) with the predictability factor, BAM!

    I hope the lost time is made up with an uber-batch in September?

    Bottom line: We all need to keep hanging in there…

  24. bailey Says:

    It is pitiful if that is the case.

    I am very sorry for those of you hoping for a referral this month if this turns out to be true.

  25. fjm Says:

    oh so sad. I believe the 24th is the cut off. oh so sad. but congratulations for all you folks in the 22-24 range. we’ve discussed this ad nauseum but I am so afraid that the program is just going to shut down. what to do? what to do?

  26. suenzig Says:

    i think we could all use a woo woo cupcake..
    lid 12/05/05

  27. clairesmom Says:

    Not surprised, but still got my hopes up that it would be more. I’m just numb to this whole process now, wondering if it is even real anymore….

  28. Calamity4e Says:

    Somebody correct me if this is not right, but isn’t this the 5th month for November? and still no end to it?? How many months is it going to take? 6? 7?

    Can somebody please pass the cupcake?

    Extra Ganache please.

    LID 12/20/05

  29. dutchdeb Says:

    Calamity4e:
    Don’t want to know…..

    Can I have some of your cupcake?

  30. Becky Says:

    Let’s not give up HOPE for more days…not just yet.

    Becky

    12-09-05

  31. AmazingGrace Says:

    Hope deferred make the heart grow sick. Well I am heart sick. What good is all this information if it is constantly leading to dissapointment!

    12/14/05

  32. threebluesteps Says:

    DragonMom - if you’re LID Nov 30, and with the 24th in this batch, you ARE in the next batch–easily–even if it’s smaller than the last 4 batches ou’re still in.(see the AUg 04 percentage stats on the 11/2005 forum thread). No question about that now. Lots of reasons to celebrate and get ready!!!

  33. w8ing4emma Says:

    Hi–cupcake girl here! If anyone is traveling with me & wants to put in an order for a woo-woo cupcake, I’ll be happy to take orders–haha. The place is called Jilly’s Cupcake Bar and it’s in STL. I recommend it to my fellow St Louisans. It’s the best bar I’ve been to in a while.

    The ganache was to die for. And the cupcake had a chocolate covered graham cracker on the top. YUMMMMMM

    (And no–I don’t own it & I don’t know the person who does).

    hey–I guess we don’t have to give up yet! Fingers crossed!!!!!

    Linda
    12/13/05

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