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I really miss my husband right now.
« on: February 04, 2010, 09:50:20 PM »

He's my best friend and I miss him so much.  I miss everything about him, even his snoring, biting of nails, and random diatribes on issues I wouldn't find interesting in this lifetime. 
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Re: I really miss my husband right now.
« Reply #1 on: February 04, 2010, 10:20:29 PM »

yeah, I get it 

I didn't know how much I liked my husband until he was gone; how much he settles me in my soul just being here.

Hang in there.   
It doesn't replace his presence in the house, but do you get to talk on the phone or skype?
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Re: I really miss my husband right now.
« Reply #2 on: February 04, 2010, 10:30:40 PM »

Ugh....tell me about it.   

I would actually enjoy his constant harping about $$ right now, just because he'd be sitting in the same room with me.  Smiley

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Re: I really miss my husband right now.
« Reply #3 on: February 05, 2010, 01:49:57 PM »

awwwww.................. ....big hugs to you guys...
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Re: I really miss my husband right now.
« Reply #4 on: February 05, 2010, 02:10:07 PM »

It doesn't replace his presence in the house, but do you get to talk on the phone or skype?

Not too much.  No Skype or anything visual.  We did just have some news I had to get to him about my daughter's health and they set up a VTC in a classified portion of the building, which was wonderful.  That was I guess two weeks ago.  I just love him so much.

Thanks for the hugs, ladies.   I really appreciate it.   People say the holidays are the hardest times to be without your Soldier, but I think it's the 'in betweens'.  xoxo
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Re: I really miss my husband right now.
« Reply #5 on: February 06, 2010, 01:00:43 AM »

I feel your pain!! I will pick my husband up at the airport next week for "leave" and then send him back to the litter box for another 6 months...It sucks!! I did have a moment of joy yesterday as I brought my trash cans in, it dawned on me that I won't be doing that next week, HE can!!
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Re: I really miss my husband right now.
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Re: I really miss my husband right now.
« Reply #7 on: February 13, 2010, 12:34:35 PM »

i am so sorry. I know how difficult it can be. My DH was deployed right after 9/11 and there were no phone calls and very few emails due to communications black-outs. Then he was sent into Afghanistan and Pakistan with the Marines, and one of his friends back in Norfolk thought it would be funny if they called and asked if I had heard from him since they had not. Really not funny.

I wish that there was something that I could say or do to make you feel better.  Nothing is better than a big hug or even to see their face.

In the meantime a big hug from this former Navy spouse.
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Re: I really miss my husband right now.
« Reply #8 on: February 13, 2010, 04:46:01 PM »

DC Mom,

I know -- when Doug deployed right after 9/11, we didn't hear from him for 40 days.  Then a year later he went to Iraq and we didn't hear from him for 95 days.  We'd stay glued to the tv and my  heart would stop if we heard of a medical platoon being attacked.

And...btw, I'm sad too that we aren't coming to DC.  :(

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Re: I really miss my husband right now.
« Reply #9 on: February 16, 2010, 09:56:49 PM »

Hopefully this time will pass quickly. Thinking of you!
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Re: I really miss my husband right now.
« Reply #10 on: February 22, 2010, 12:33:13 PM »

You all have brought tears to my eyes.  I wish I had more to offer, but you are in my thoughts, and I am so grateful for the sacrifices you and your families have made for our country!
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